“It feels very participating trophies.”

As a mother of three threesome with a fourth place on the way, Kylie Kelce was on some children's birthday parties – and there is a trend against which she is “vehement”.

There is a new trend in which parents who organize children's birthday parties not only expect gifts for their birthday child or girl – they also require party guests to bring gifts for the child's siblings.

“I will say that I am vehemently against the idea that other children will get birthday gifts on the birthday of a child,” said the 32 -year -old Kelce in an episode of her popular podcast “not Gund lies”.

The trend achieved at the beginning of this month on Tikkok, when a mother shared her 6-year-old child with an invitation to the birthday of another child from school, and the invitation asked the parents to also give a gift for the little brother to bring so that he is not “exuberant”.

The mother announced that she was “bottomless” and added that it is the responsibility of the guest mother-not her, a gift for her 3-year-old if she believes that one is needed.

Kelce – which her fourth child with husband Jason Kelce, the former star player for the Philadelphia Eagles, expected, mingled with her honest opinion about the podcast.

The mother of three daughters announced that they are ready to celebrate several birthdays together. The most recent Kelces, Bennett, was on February 23, 2, and on March 4, her eldest daughter, Wyatt, will celebrate her sixth birthday in October.

“Our family knows that nobody else receives a birthday present for Bennett's birthday,” she said. “Everyone gets a special day. When your siblings receive gifts for your birthday, this reduces your birthday. It's not her birthday – it's your birthday.

“I also think that it teaches them to an extent that just because someone gets gifts that they get gifts,” added Kelce. “It feels very participating trophies.”

Experts agreed that parents have to teach their children how they can navigate their emotions when a siblings receive a gift, and they are not.

Claire Vallotton, professor of human development and family science at the Michigan State University, explained to the USA Today that parents think that they could help the other child to feel excluded, jealous or sad – but it is normal to get these feelings too Experience, and they “re -emotions that children will experience throughout life.

“Our early childhood is when we build up the coping rate and build up this resilience unpleasant emotions,” said Vallotton. “The parents lack an opportunity to help the siblings, to manage unpleasant emotions and learn something.

“A child who does not have these options or the message that it is wrong to have these emotions will have the feeling that something is wrong with them” with inevitable unpleasant emotions later in life. “