On his second date with a girl, she said she was pregnant with her ex-husband's baby, so he was no longer interested

This 27-year-old man has a 31-year-old colleague named Richard, who did his best to get him to say yes with his 28-year-old friend Sara.

He finally gave in and Richard said he would take Sara out. When he met Sara, he found her exciting because they were nearby, and he thought they had a lot together.

“We had a good time and I was actually looking forward to seeing them again,” he said. “But during the second date Sara mentions that she is pregnant.”

“She is about 4 months and I was not sure how to deal with it. It took me a long time to process it and didn't know how to answer. “

“Personally, I didn't know that people who expected a child to still go date, both men and women. I always thought the baby was a priority for at least two years. Maybe I'm no longer in contact (but do not judge you). “

He is not too stupid, simply because he is not interested in playing the role of stepfather for anyone. He wants to keep his life as dram-free as possible, and it prevents someone from being a baby dad in the picture. Not only that – but he is not convinced that he could find it in his heart to love a child he does not have.

But let's go back to this second date with Sara – he didn't tell her after unveiling her pregnancy.

When her date came to an end and Sara suggested that she would go out for another date, he did not hold back. He said that because of her baby, he couldn't see Sara on the way.

“After that, Richard was angry with me. He told me that Sara had been cheated by her husband, and during the divorce she found out that she was pregnant, ”he added.

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“She didn't want to keep the baby because she didn't want to impose it alone, but all her friends, including Richard, persuaded her to keep it, and said that there are many good people out there. Richard then told me that the first “good guy” he thought was. “

“He said I was the only one she liked among the boys with whom they put them on. She was clearly upset about being rejected even though she didn't tell him anything, but it was obvious that she was sad. “

He felt disappointed when Richard did not mention that he knew Sara was pregnant before the date. Richard also tries that he feels bad while he convinces him to continue to meet, although this is against what he wants.

He replied Richard that he feels terrible for Sara, but it is not because of him to save her from her circumstances. He tries to find out his own life, and it is too much to do it and deal with Sara's pregnancy.

After this conversation with Richard, his other colleagues began to treat him with an illion that he had never seen before.

A man named Ben actually informed him that Richard was running around and says he was the reason why a pregnant girl almost lost her baby.

He gave Ben the truth, and so Ben has said since then that he should go to the HR department because Richard ruins his reputation in the office.

He wondered if he is mean because he doesn't want to go out with a pregnant girl.

What do you think?

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