Millennial Mom defends a viral video of the 3-year “curse”

A three -member mother defended herself against the “hate” that she received online after posting a video in which she made fun of her daughter's idea.

Allissa Evans from New South Wales in Australia published a 12-second video of Tiktok of himself and her three-year-old daughter, who performed a sketch in the melody of the Glorilla route Bad bih 4 ya. A caption on the screen, which apparently is attributed to an unspecified critic of Evans' parent style, is: “You have to stop dealing with the children.”

Evans weighs her daughter throughout the video. The toddler turns into the camera for the five-second mark in the video, still in her mother's arms, to an expedant in the glorilla track that plays over the video.

It is perfectly determined to give the impression that it is the one who swears and serves as an amusing message of the defiant for one of the prospective critics of Evans.

Told Evans Newsweek The video was created for a little fun. “It's just a trendy sound that runs around Tikok and did similar things to people with other adults or children,” she said. “I just decided to try my daughter and she just played it perfectly. I think it's just popular because it is a trendy sound and the unexpected perfect timing of a child who does it is strange.”

It has certainly proven to be popular, with 2 million views and counts and almost 1,200 comments. However, not every answer was positive. “As a teacher, they make our jobs so much more difficult,” said a spectator. “This is so wrong,” wrote another with a third party: “Bad parenthood.”

Many people have published positive answers that defended the sketch. “Parents who do not allow them to swear around their children have children who swear the most,” wrote one viewer, another agreed: “Everyone is pressed. She has an evil sense of humor.”

Evans was surprised at how much the video was blown up, and while classifying that she got “a bit of hatred”, could see the funny side.

“To be honest, hate is expected when a video receives so many views and attention,” she said. “There will always be different opinions and views, so it is expected that it will get some hate or negative comments. I just take it as a grain of salt.”

She also had a message for those who criticized her skills as parents: “resolved”.

“I know that my children are respectful and well man children, and people judge my parenthood and my children from a stupid little 15-second video, it's pretty crazy,” she said.

“Creating this video was not damaged, it was a bit of fun. The people online, the Mama Shadm and judges, are the only ones who could harm.

Evans nevertheless felt that her attitude to swear her children was valid. The context is the key to their way of thinking.

“I don't think swearing around her is the problem, I think it's the way it is used,” she said. “If it should be used harmful or abusive, there is a problem with swearing. But I believe that only casually swearing how singing singing into a song has no damage and does not affect her well -being.”

Evans' attitude there is a valid argument. It was previously presented by Benjamin Bergen, a cognitive scientist and author of the book What the the F: What reveals swearing over our language, our brain and us.

In 2016 he argued in the La times There is no proof that “the exposure to ordinary obscene-four-letter-word-word-in-depth type of direct damage causes: no increased aggression, stunted vocabulary, anesthetized emotions or anything else”.

Although not everyone will agree to the attitude of Evans, their only real hope of the video that it will receive a positive reaction. “Everything was fun and if it helps to change opinions for the better or just bring a little laughter for someone, then I'm all for it,” she said.