I made a first date with a relatively normal guy made of hinge – but now I want to block him about his frightening texts

A single woman felt shocked after a man in whom she bombed a date with intensive text messages, a date with bombard.

The date she met over the app dating app, confessed his love and even explained that he wanted her to be the mother of his children.

The 25-year-old announced with Reddit that she had entertained with the 28-year-old man for fourteen days before met a dinner on a weekend.

Her night together was pleasant, but briefly and took about an hour and a half, when they spoke and held hands about dinner when they went back to the train station.

She personally found him “relatively normal”, maybe a “little one”, but nothing that raised red flags at the time.

The couple planned a second date when things took an unpleasant turn.

What followed was a flood of disturbing texts that made them deeply uncomfortable.

“These texts after our first date are me,” she said.

He sent a series of news in which he explained his love and said: “I love you and everything about you” and “I wanted to be my girlfriend tonight to be honest”.

The hinge date then went one step further and told her: “I want you to be my baby mama and spend the rest of my life with you.”

Shocked by his intensity, she replied by asking how he could feel like this after just one date.

The overwhelming consensus online was that it should block him immediately.

Many agreed that this was a classic case of love bomb attacks.

Some suggested that he was not in love with her, but in the idea of ​​her and filled an emptiness instead of establishing a real connection.

Others warned that he could continue to appear in her life if she has not cut ties now, sent sporadic news and refused to take no for an answer.

A commentator found his approach particularly worrying and said: “I want you to be my baby mama.” As a compliment is wild – who is flattered from it? '

Another agreed and wrote: “I literally turned my face in disgust when I read it.”

Others pointed out that whirlwind romances can occur, but this intensity after a single date was a blatant red flag.

One person informed their own experiences and revealed that they ignored similar signs at an early stage.

“It happened to me once and I ignored the signs, I was convinced that it was just a language barrier and thought nothing of it (as was obviously too early),” she said.

“Then he admitted to sabotage the birth control months later so that he could try to get pregnant and have a reason to stay in the country!”

While some realized that they had quickly fallen in love with their partners and even knew early on that they had hit the one ', they still found the behavior of this man inappropriate.

A person who had been happily married for ten years admitted that after the first date they knew that she had met her future spouse, but said: “I didn't get my love immediately.”

The woman was advised to block and continue the man immediately.

Many saw his actions as a potential forerunner for more about the behavior with a warning “tie raws now before becoming a stalker because this is stalker material.”

Others assured her that despite the worrying experience, she had gone at least early on a ball.

As a person put it: “No waste of time to learn that he is not the man for her. A little nice when the strange ones are efficient in time and place it outside. '