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On a date with a guy as soon as she said she wouldn't sleep with him, he closed the dinner and asked for the check

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On a Saturday, Tikker Caroline (@Carolineeliseeeee) entered into with a man she met in a dating app.

They spent two and a half to three hours together, ate food and rummaged through economical business. At the end of the date he went to her car and asked if he could bring her to dinner.

She said yes, so she planned to go out for dinner two days later. For their second date they had some serious conversations about what they were looking for in a relationship. Things went south halfway through dinner.

The moment she told him that she would not sleep with him that night, he put his fork down and waved the server to her table.

He asked for the check and a box for her leftovers. Caroline was speechless. They then left the restaurant without being able to end her dinner.

When he led her to her car, he wanted to make it clear again that she really didn't plan to sleep with him. She couldn't believe his boldness.

After leaving, she was able to process everything correctly and realized how rude and disgusting his behavior had been.

She called a few friends to tell them about her experience in the second date. Then she decided to give him a piece of her opinion and send him a message. She immediately blocked him and did not take care of his answer.

Later that night she cried to sleep. She was not upset about losing this guy at all. Rather, she was more stunned that someone had treated her so obviously as an object for his own pleasure.

Young beautiful woman who sits in the restaurant and enjoys summer vacation
KRakenimages.com – stile.adobe.com – only illustrative purposes, not the actual person

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When you go forward, your goals for the dating are not to sell yourself briefly due to your body image problem or to undermine your own value.

Now Caroline reminds all girls that they deserve to be treated with respect and friendliness, no matter what happens. In the comment area, some TikTok users shared similar dating experiences.

“The same thing happened to me. He asked if I would spend the night with him and got angry when I said no, money put money on the table for my drinks and went immediately, ”commented one user.

“Girl, you did the right thing. I arranged a man with a lot of red flags that I ignored because of my self -esteem problems, and he ended with an absolute disaster because he was so manipulative and creepy, ”said another.

“I did a tinder date with the most boring man in the state and he had the boldness to ask me a week later. Bye, ”added one third.

Emily Chan is a writer who covers the lifestyle and news content. She completed the Michigan State University with a … more about Emily Chan

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