The Scharnern user canceled potential date for the behavior of “red flags”

This sweet date quickly got angry before it even started.

A woman from New Jersey told the behavior of the “red flag”, which caused her to cancel an ice date with a hinge match after the man refused to compromise on site.

In a threads contribution this week, Singleton Krishna Shah said that she was ready to make her dating app -Match on a dessert date.

He asked her to meet him at 8:30 p.m. in a place in an area with which she was “not familiar … but it bounded to a shady city”. Not to mention that the ice cream parlor was rated 3.4, which she said was “a no for me”.

“I told him politely that I did not feel this place and sent two more suggestions (rated 4.7 and 4.8), and one of them was even closer to the city where he said to me in Maplewood,” Shah recalled and later added that she had suggested in Maplewood Honey and Hive trade in Maplewood, and fell into Little Sturz in Little Sturz In his cold Stone cream.

“I asked if one of these works for him.”

“No,” Shah said that her date answered. “I sent you a place, if that doesn't work for you, it is what it is.”

She has not surpassed the mysterious man. She made it clear that the “red flag part” of his actions “did not offer her potential date where to meet”, not that he did not agree to her suggestions.

“This is how online dating, friends. So I took a break of the dating and it seems that I will expand this break, ”she said.

“If you no longer offer my life added value, I would rather stay single. I am old school and would really prefer to meet someone personally. “

Her contribution was a nerve with some legitimate bachelors, which they called “annoying” and “justified”, while others praised their instincts.

“Women want a man who can lead. A guy who can make plans, ”said a critic. “If you wanted to choose where you went, you should have made plans. Instead, they showed him that if he plans a date, they judge the place he chooses without giving him a chance and trusting his judgment, and it's just about what you want. Redflag. “

“It sounds like a shower, but they also sound annoying, so it was actually a good game,” purred another.

“Well, when I pay … we go where I decided,” argued a user. “If you pay, let's go where you decide … I respect his decision.”

“I drove 30 miles to meet a date in her hometown so that she felt more comfortable than driving to mine,” commented someone else. “If a man doesn't meet her on a more beautiful ice cream, it tells you everything you need to know.”

“To the people who answer that she is a child of the legitimate brat … Is that what you would say to her daughter if she had the feeling that the area was unsure and was not undressed on a first date? Ask for a friend's daughter, ”wrote one person.

“Girls, if a man on a 3.4 star -date, there is already knowing that he will be a 1.2 star friend,” joked another.

“He is looking for someone he can push around,” commented a education. “Ew Ew Ew.”

“There is nothing bigger than a man who doesn't want you to feel safe on a date,” another.